What can I say about my little angel that has not already been said by her mother or grandma? I am certain my writing will not be as poetic as theirs, but I wanted to take a moment to share some of my thoughts from these amazing last few days. The flight over was definitely long to say the least, but it went by as quickly as possible with our anticipation on finally meeting our daughter. When Alicia, in one of her first posts, said the flight on the 747 from Minneapolis to Tokyo and from Tokyo to Manila was a "cattle car" in coach, she meant it. The airport in Manila was pretty chaotic, about what you picture or expect if you have ever flow into a major airport in a developing country. The city itself is beautiful as you can see from some of the pictures. It reminds me a lot of the Santo Domingo. They drive a lot like the D.R. as well, there is not even a posted speed limit in the city limits! However, with traffic at most times they don't really need one because you can't go too fast in gridlock. My favorite sites are looking down the side roads, from the main roads we are driving on, and into the neighborhoods and seeing the people on the narrow streets. The city offers everything you would expect from a metro area of over 18 million. Areas like where our hotel is located, Makati City - the center of their financial district, are a bustle with business people and shoppers. It is not uncommon to see BMW's Mercedes, Land Rovers, etc. Then there is the other side, ranging from shanty town like dwellings along one of the rivers not to far from Katrina's hometown of Cavite, to the high rise low income housing projects lining the city streets and railroad tracks in some areas. Seeing "street children" barely clothed breaks your heart.
Now to my little girl... I really didn't feel that nervous on our way to meet her. I guess 25+ months of preparation will do that. We had to wait in this little office for like 10 minutes, although it seemed a lot longer as you can imagine, for them to go get "Kat Kat." When they brought her in she looked just like the first pictures we got of her, only a few months older. I didn't want to scare her, but after a moment of looking at her in awe I grabbed her and sat her on my leg, the first picture posted with her on my leg was taken by Alicia's mother within a minute of us meeting our angel. After a few moments she recognized Alicia's face and put her arms out for her mother to grab her and hold her. It was truly amazing. For the first few minutes she was pretty calm, but then her personality slowly came out more and more. She is a very active little girl and will squirm and squiggle if she is not comfortable or doesn't want to be held. She loves to look at herself in the mirror. She also likes to be tickled and she laughs as she runs back in forth between mommy and daddy in the room and grabs onto our legs. I was worried when she woke up this morning, her first night away from the Hospicio, that she would be scared and not remember where she was. However, as I heard her wake up, at 4:17am for good, she sat up in her crib and just gazed at her mother and I with a peaceful grin on her face. She was a bit of a handful during parts of the ceremony today as she would have rather climbed a jungle gym then sat in a pew, but we managed. She is just so beautiful with her curly hair, long eye lashes, and full lips. We both feel just so lucky that god chose us to be her parents. It has been a whirlwind and a tiring couple days, no doubt due to the 13 hour time difference and the 21 1/2 hours of flying, but we are looking forward to enjoying the next couple of days and then bringing our beautiful daughter home to meet all of you, her new family and friends!
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
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Wow, Dustin. About 2 years ago, you told us all that you & Lish were in the process of adopting from the Philippines. It was just so hard to imagine. It was quite hard to imagine my big brother that I grew up with-as a dad! But now you've really done it, you've got Katrina! Adoption is such a sacred, unselfish, just completely incredible thing. I might know a little bit about it. I'm just so proud of you. I know you will be a great dad. I know you will both have the courage and confidence to give Katrina a wonderful life. Love u guys! -Beka
ReplyDeleteThanks, Dad, for making some comments. It is really nice to 'hear' your voice. I also love that you put her on your knee right away. So many men would have stepped back and waited. It is obvious that you were DONE waiting! This little girl has changed your life forever. Enjoy the rest of your time there. Watch those women and the shopping (you have 3 there, now), try to get some sleep, and travel home safely. Love, Sue
ReplyDeleteDustin. How wonderful this all is. We can't wait for you to make it back with your precious cargo.
ReplyDeleteIt all reminds me of the stories your Mom and Dad have told me about Beka. With such wonderful parents, she turned out to be a remarkable woman. Katrina has now been blessed the same way! She is so lucky to have you and Lish. Just as you are so fortunate to have such an angel join your family! I am so happy for the three of you.
Please keep the pictures and notes coming. I check this site every morning when I get to work, and it starts things off with a huge smile that last throughout the whole day. We will see you very soon now. Peace, Peter.
Hey I didn't know we could hear voices on this blog, how do we do that?
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ReplyDeleteIt was so nice to hear how you have been during this journey. Your daughter is beautiful!! I can't wait to meet my niece, I'm so excited for you guys..
Love ya, Melissa
She is such a pretty little girl...enjoy your days there and have safe a trip back to the states...can't wait to meet her and play with her. You will have to get lots of hair clips and bows for all theat curly hair! Love Jeanna and baby J
ReplyDeleteShes my niece, shes my niece, shes my niece, ha ha :)
ReplyDeleteWhat time do you guys fly in to Milwaukee on Saturday? I think I am going to put up a tent and camp out at Mitchell for a few days. Uncle Brad
ReplyDeleteSon; it was good to hear from you . the trip has been awesome !! I love the pictures from the orphange and wish I could have been there for the mass and cermony . God had certainley had a plan for your family . The blessings that he knew you were to recieve were certainley far above and beyond what you and your wife had imagened. I am so proud of what the two of you have allowed to happen in your lives . Dustin you look like the proudest father that ever was. But how can this be?? Because I certainley have to be that man. We will be axiuosly awaiting your arrival home. Oh/ tell Lola I do enjoy her story/ It must be incredible to walk thru her Father,s steps and see the country and people from where he came from and look upon the things that he cheerished. Please enjoy and cheerish your time. God;s blessing be with you all.
ReplyDeleteIt has been fun watching your journey. Elle says she is the cutest little girl. We are wondering where her purple and pink butterfly shorts are. Do they fit her or are they too big? Also where are her little shorty-short shorts. Looking forward to more updates and pictures. Love Elle and Kate.
ReplyDeleteI cant believe how beautiful she is... I am so happy for both of you.. I got tears on my eyes when I read all the comments and saw the pics :)
ReplyDeleteCan you please ask around if they seen Juan Manuel Marquez around there? just tell them is the guy who beat Pacaquio twice.
Can't wait to meet her..
Ulises
We are waiting, what do you guys think you are on vacation :)
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